3 things the world should rethink!

Okay! This blog is a dedication to those who are muted and couldn't shout loud, to all the people who are going with the flow, to all those who go by "It's okay to be not okay". Sometimes this world is not a happy place to live. I mean our world- the people around, the thoughts that revolve, the ideologies. There is a lot of blah, blah, and blahs out there.

Let's split it one by one and let's rethink on few of them:

1. Don't make money making a metric of happiness

Okay come and argue if you're against it. The basic rule of money is, it never makes anyone happy nor will it. The more we have, the more we want. It will not stop after a point. Instead of filling a vacuum, it creates another and another and so on.

We do schooling, we go to colleges. Just go back and think about the richness of experiences, fun, entertainment, emotions, those school walls, prayers, first love, friends and cycles, teachers- good and bad ones, rainy days, sports days, winning and losing. Come back now and just think these are things even a billion-dollar can't get you.

We study to live a great life. We all want to escape the middle man life and come and live a prosperous life and I mean by true heart that everybody should strive to work hard and be better in their financial things. Work hard with your skills, strive for excellence every day, collect richness of memories and experiences.

But don't make money a happier point. "This much of money can't get you anywhere if that doesn't give a penny of happiness". Being happy is what makes success. A person who just prepares Maggi in the mountains is far happier than us.

2. Level of progressive thinking:

What's wrong with being a nomad, model, photographer, food blogger, tea maker? Why can't we convince ourselves and the world out there? Why are we being pushed into someone's metrics of happiness and live by just following them? Why can't we stand up and do things we love?

The first problem starts with convincing ourselves. It takes us so much time to act when we have a different path. We don't prioritize our passions when it comes to taking them as a career.

Take, for instance, your friend doing great in their life and having a rich life. They are good at it and they just love doing those things. The problem starts when we think about all the ifs. What if being a photographer doesn't give a luxurious life? What if I don't earn respect?

The second problem comes from convincing our parents. At the end of the day, we live under their money. See, our parent's progressive level has gone a tremendous improvement but the problem is, it is not equal to our level of thinking.

I can't go to my parents and be like "I want to climb mountains and die when I am finished right? So, this level of ideologies from parents is really stressing our progressive way of living and we can't blame them too.

What we do instead is do something that can fetch enough stability and finance them to build our own passion side. But this means a lot of time-wasting on things we don't love right?

I hope gen z's parents make the best environment for progressive thinking.

3. Sexual Bias:

Ladies and gentlemen, Don't create useless gender bias myths. What's wrong with a girl having a boy cut? Does it mean she is a boy? She just loves her hair to be that way. Why do we think a few characteristics are especially attributed to a girl's lifestyle and some to a boy's lifestyle?

What's wrong with girls being loud and powerful? What's wrong with boys being skinny and loose? What's wrong with a woman earning and looking after her husband? Till now we lived under a man's earnings, right?

Why the fuck are we creating such gender myths? Let's stop this, it's really stressful. Lets' be our own way and lets' be unique. Be your own way and let the world around you makes a noise like a fool.

Conclusion:

There is a lot of things that have to be adapted. Create a change within yourself and let's create a safer and happier place to live. Productivity has been ruining and misleading most of the definitions. What are we trying to achieve by living so fast? Don't be in a hurry, we all live only once.

Thank you for reading till the end. I know some things might be fucking you as well. Take some time and write to me and will surely come up with some insights for the same in my next blog. I am not so great at talking about sexual orientation topics and will surely learn more about those things and will come up with that in my next piece Because I feel that's an important topic to be rethinking.

Also, I am working on understanding climate change. I have stopped consuming non-vegetarian and this is a promise that I will be following till I die. Slowly working on some minor changes for that too. I will be opening up a series of blogs for climate change topics.

That's it from me. Feel free to reach out on anything and will surely have some great conversation. Thank you and have a great week.

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